Find all of our experimentation-themed guided masturbations and instructions below.
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13th January 2023 – Productivity Play
I think we can all agree that sometimes play sessions start because we’re procrastinating, bored, or disengaged with whatever we’re doing. There’s nothing inherently wrong with this! That said, sometimes it’s important to avoid procrastination and actually complete the tasks we have in front of us. Today’s instructions are about using play as a reward…
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9th January 2023 – Scents and Self-Care
Several recent instructions have incorporated or suggested the use of different sensual items to create an erotic atmosphere. Today’s instructions will focus on scents, particularly incense and scented candles. You won’t need much, just a source for a sensual smell of your choice and the privacy required to enjoy that smell in a calming play…
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6th January 2023 – Introduction to Edging
We’ve explored elements of edging and teasing before on DEI, but today we’re going to focus on it. If you’re unaware, edging is the act of bringing yourself close to orgasm and then backing off to prolong your play session. For many people, edging repeatedly can lead to more intense orgasms when they finally climax.…
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4th January 2023 – Rules: Exclusivity Session
With rules-based sessions, I don’t tell you exactly how to play, I just give a few key guidelines to follow. Today’s session is all about control and experimentation. Instead of simply playing however you like, there are three simple rules.
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3rd January 2023 – Breathing
Today’s session is about breathing, not breath play. Whilst breath play is usually about limiting your breathing, which can be dangerous and should not be done alone, today’s session is about synchronising your breathing with your play instead.
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1st January 2023 – New Year, New Toy
Today’s instructions are split into two parts. Part 1 is to find a new toy for you to play with (suggestions are included) and Part 2 is to play with that toy once you have it.
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24th August 2021 – Submissive Acts and Impact Play
Today’s theme is exploring submissiveness through impact play, dirty positions and submissive acts. You won’t need much, just some underwear and a spanking implement (your hand is enough if that’s all you have).
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29th June 2021 – Rules: Collared Play
Today’s theme is exploring submissive play through wearing a collar. You don’t need a specially made collar, all you need is something to symbolize ownership that can be wrapped around your neck. A choker, a chain necklace, a strip of ribbon – anything can work.
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26th June 2021 – Armchair Play
Today’s session is about playing in one of these very exposed and explicit positions, increasing the dirtiness of your play in the process. All you’ll need is an armchair.
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4th April 2021 – Timed Clit Play
Today’s instructions focus on using different clit play techniques in a timed setting, pushing you to try new things until you discover the one that you enjoy most.
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2nd April 2021 – Kegel Exercises
Whilst they’re not inherently sexual, kegel exercises are an important part of maintaining your body’s strength and keeping yourself comfortable as you get older. In short, they’re a great habit to get into! Today’s instructions are simple – complete some kegel exercises before you play.
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1st April 2021 – Phone Sex
Phone sex with a partner can be incredibly hot, especially if you have the space to be comfortable and loud when you’re talking. Muffled moans over the phone and dirty talk not only amplify your pleasure whilst you play, they also serve as great practice for when you want to whisper sweet nothings during physical…
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31st March 2021 – Introduction to Multiple Orgasms
Today is not about having three orgasms in five minutes. Today is about experimenting with your pleasure and finding how you respond to post-orgasm stimulation; it’s about exploring whether having multiple orgasms is possible for you and if so, how to achieve it.
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30th March 2021 – Introduction to Orgasm Denial
Whilst typically associated with BDSM, orgasm denial and edging can be interesting ways of introducing a new sensation to your play. There’s no denying that taking things slow and teasing yourself can amplify the intensity and pleasure of your orgasms; edging and orgasm denial are just the next step.
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28th March 2021 – Hourly Tasks
Today’s instructions are a little more free-form. Instead of step-by-step instructions, I will be giving you a list of tasks to complete throughout the day. You can complete them in any order.
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27th March 2021 – Cowgirl
The best way to get to know your body is through solo play. This solo play exploration includes trying new positions, which is why today’s instructions are about trying a specific sensation – cowgirl. You won’t need much, just a large enough toy to ride.
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23rd March 2021 – Introduction to Nipplegasms
Today’s instructions are all about nipple play and nipplegasms. Wait! Before you jump into experimenting, remember that if you start to become tired or frustrated, you can stop and just enjoy a regular play session. Don’t feel pressured to try and achieve a nipplegasm when most people can’t.
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21st March 2021 – Sexting
Today’s instructions are about using your imagination and writing skills to add a written element to your play. Sexting is great fun and an exceptional way of exploring your sexual kinks and fantasies in a healthy, non-committal manner.