Nipple play, like all types of play, is more enjoyable for some people than others. There are lots of reasons for this, most of which are biological. Regardless, the majority of people at least know that nipple play can be good. In fact, a 2006 study showed that nipple stimulation enhanced sexual arousal for 82% of women.
What people don’t always know is that for some people, it’s possible to orgasm from nipple play alone. No clit play. No penetration. Solely nipple stimulation.
These nipple orgasms, or nipplegasms, aren’t common. Whilst a lot of research has been done into other erogenous zones and experiences, nipplegasms have been mostly ignored. The only statistic I could find said that “Reports based on non-scientific surveys estimate the percentage of women experiencing orgasm from nipple stimulation alone ranges anywhere from 1% to 15.5%.” which suggests that not many people can do it successfully.
Today, we’re going to try for ourselves. Today’s instructions are all about nipple play and nipplegasms. Wait! Before you jump into experimenting, remember that if you start to become tired or frustrated, you can stop and just enjoy a regular play session. Don’t feel pressured to try and achieve a nipplegasm when most people can’t.
For more information on nipplegasms, check this great article out (not sponsored).
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. This is not about control.
- Start with nipple play only. This is about exploring nipplegasms. Feel free to incorporate other elements of play if you find yourself not enjoying yourself, though.
- Create a relaxed space. Dim the lights and get the candles out. Remember that chasing an orgasm is the best way to never have one. Remove the distractions so that you can empty your mind and enjoy the sensations of your play.
- Remember that you can stop at any time. Most people cannot masturbate from nipple play alone. If you find yourself struggling, bored or just not enjoying yourself, stop and have a regular play session.
- You will need time. Carve time out for yourself. Give yourself all the time you need to relax whilst you experiment.
- Optional: Bring massage oil. A massage bar or other massage product will also work.
Instructions
- For some of these instructions, you will need both of your hands. If you are on a phone, read each instruction, put your phone down and then follow the instruction for two minutes (or until ready). This will allow you to use both hands.
- Start by taking your clothes off and laying on your back. Get comfortable and before you touch yourself, start to imagine a fantasy in your mind. Imagine yourself being teased and played with. Let your imagination wander and as you do, start to caress your body using both hands. Avoid anywhere sensitive to start with.
- When ready, start to become a little more teasing. Use your fingertips to trace lines up and down your body, gliding closer and closer to your labia, your clit and your nipples each time. Continue fantasizing whilst you do this, getting as close as possible to where you’re sensitive without directly touching.
- Now, very slowly, use a finger or two to slide up from your entrance to your clit. Be very light and slow, pausing once you reach your clit to begin tracing small circles over its surface. This should be teasing. Use your free hand to massage (don’t use the oil yet) one of your breasts, allowing your fingertips to brush over your nipples roughly.
- Continue your extremely gentle clit play but shift from massaging with your other hand to more direct play. Spiral your fingertip over your breast, getting closer and closer to your nipple until you finally reach it. Then, pinch it between your thumb and forefinger and pull gently until it naturally slips through your grip. Repeat this with your other nipple. Continue alternating like this as you play with your clit (it should be extremely light clit play).
- Use the hand that has been teasing your clit to slide down to your entrance. With a finger or two, begin teasing your entrance, sliding just your fingertips inside you before pulling them out. Whilst you do this, continue your slow nipple play, spiralling your fingertips before pinching and pulling.
- When ready, slide your fingers inside you slowly. Slide them as deep as possible and rest them there. Do not move them. Spend a minute or two with your fingers inside you, continuing your nipple play. Imagine yourself being teased and played with like this. Create a fantasy in your mind.
- After a minute or two, slide your fingers out and (if you have some) get your massage oil out. Place some on your hands and begin to massage it into your chest. Apply as much as you need. Use both hands. Do this until your breasts are soft to touch.
- Allow your mind to wander again. Imagine one of your favourite fantasies. Simultaneously, continue to massage your breasts, using your fingertips to play with your nipples. Experiment to find your favourite technique. Try more pinching and pulling, try brushing your fingers back and forth over them, try pushing on their surface or tracing small circles around them. Explore your nipples entirely. Find whatever feels best and stick with it as you fantasize. Stay like this for a few minutes, playing as you fantasize.
- Choose whether to continue experimenting with exclusively nipple play or add other play elements, too.
- When ready – orgasm.