Find all of our nipple-themed guided masturbations and instructions below, including nipplegasm instructions.
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14th January 2023 – Submissive Performance
Whilst my content tends to focus on solo play, today’s instructions are designed for couples or for those who have partners they can play with. We will not be focusing on mutual masturbation. Instead, this session will be about performative submission – playing in front of someone as a form of power play whilst exploring…
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10th January 2023 – Position Training: Kneeling
Kneeling is a common position used by people throughout the kink spectrum. However, kneeling seems to hold a particular presence in BDSM, where it serves as a physical representation of the power exchange during play. As part of this power play, many submissives – whether by their own choice or under instruction from a dominant…
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7th January 2023 – Light Dimming Play
I’m sure we can all agree that how dark a space is can have a big impact on what a play session feels like, regardless of whether playing on your own or with others. Today’s session is about exploring specifically the visual part of sensory deprivation, not through a blindfold, but through dimming your lights.…
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6th January 2023 – Introduction to Edging
We’ve explored elements of edging and teasing before on DEI, but today we’re going to focus on it. If you’re unaware, edging is the act of bringing yourself close to orgasm and then backing off to prolong your play session. For many people, edging repeatedly can lead to more intense orgasms when they finally climax.…
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5th January 2023 – Submissive Discipline: Mantra
Today, we’re focused on submission by continuing our submissive discipline series. The submissive discipline series explores ways you can incorporate submission into your solo play through strict or disciplinary tasks, sometimes as a punishment. In these instructions, the task will be to say a submissive mantra that verbalises your submission to your dominant. You do…
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4th January 2023 – Rules: Exclusivity Session
With rules-based sessions, I don’t tell you exactly how to play, I just give a few key guidelines to follow. Today’s session is all about control and experimentation. Instead of simply playing however you like, there are three simple rules.
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3rd January 2023 – Breathing
Today’s session is about breathing, not breath play. Whilst breath play is usually about limiting your breathing, which can be dangerous and should not be done alone, today’s session is about synchronising your breathing with your play instead.
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2nd January 2023 – Cosy Play
One of the best parts about the winter months is escaping the cold by wrapping up in blankets, putting on a movie and curling up on the sofa with a mug of something warm. Today’s session is about carving out some ‘me time’ to get comfy and have a relaxing orgasm.
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28th March 2021 – Hourly Tasks
Today’s instructions are a little more free-form. Instead of step-by-step instructions, I will be giving you a list of tasks to complete throughout the day. You can complete them in any order.
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23rd March 2021 – Introduction to Nipplegasms
Today’s instructions are all about nipple play and nipplegasms. Wait! Before you jump into experimenting, remember that if you start to become tired or frustrated, you can stop and just enjoy a regular play session. Don’t feel pressured to try and achieve a nipplegasm when most people can’t.
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14th March 2021 – Mother’s Day Relaxation
Happy Mother’s Day! To celebrate, today’s instructions are about relaxation and self-love. It can be difficult to find time in our busy schedules to just sit back and empty our minds. For mothers, it’s even more difficult but if there’s any day where you can carve some time out for yourself, it’s Mother’s Day.
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13th March 2021 – Rules: Mirror and Nipple Play
We’re keeping things simple today. As usual with rules-based instructions, I won’t be telling you exactly how to play. Instead, I’ll just be laying out some rules for you to follow during your play session, wherever and however you choose to enjoy it.
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1st March 2021 – Shower Anal Play
Have you ever thought about trying anal but worried it might be too messy, or painful, or dirty, or just… not for you? You’re definitely not alone and the key to finding out if it is for you is to try in the most comfortable situation possible. By that, I mean trying a little anal…
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21st February 2021 – Submission and Massage Oil
Whilst spanking and slapping will still feature a little, the primary point of these instructions is to promote fantasies of loving dominance where your submission is encouraged through teasing and words alone. Let your mind wander as you play! Imagine your dominant teasing you, playing with you and making you melt in their arms.
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9th February 2021 – Temperature Play Cold/Hot
There are techniques you can use to try temperature play without a partner. Primarily, by heating or cooling your sex toys. Hopefully, through these instructions, you’ll be able to explore this further.
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28th January 2021 – Vibrator Focus
Today’s instructions are tailored to vibrator owners, particularly those with larger vibrators that can be used to stimulate you as deeply as possible. Don’t forget lube if it amplifies your pleasure when you play and try not to rush – delaying your orgasm can make it even more intense and enjoyable for you.
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27th January 2021 – Spanking and Your Sex Toy
Today’s instructions are fairly simple. All you will need is a toy and enough space and privacy to spank yourself. This is suitable for all, as long as you enjoy some light to medium spanking as part of your play or would like to explore incorporating that.
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25th January 2021 – Nipple Clamps/Pegs
Whilst yesterday’s instructions where a gentle, sensual entry into the world of submission during play, today’s are a return to the more direct and rough approach. These instructions are for slightly masochistic submissives who enjoy a little pain with their pleasure.
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24th January 2021 – Submission in the Bath with Verbalisation
Today’s instructions are tailored to those who want to explore submission slowly, without immediately being thrust into rough play. Instead, this is a more sensual approach to submission, where you will imagine you are in the bath with your dominant and they are playing with you throughout.
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23rd January 2021 – Relaxation and Massage Oil
Today’s instructions focus on relaxation, ambience and sensuality. We are going to explore these themes using massage so, you will need to acquire some if you don’t have any.