It’s a Sunday – the perfect day to relax, unwind and treat yourself to some solo play. Today’s instructions are more submissive focused whilst following this theme of relaxation and self-care.
Typically, instructions for submissives tend to be rough and direct but it’s important to highlight that there’s more to D/s relationships than spanking and name-calling. Trust, love and aftercare are pillars of any healthy D/s relationship and we will be representing that with today’s instructions.
Whilst spanking and slapping will still feature a little, the primary point of these instructions is to promote fantasies of loving dominance where your submission is encouraged through teasing and words alone. Let your mind wander as you play! Imagine your dominant teasing you, playing with you and making you melt in their arms.
Rules and Information:
- Wait until the final instruction to orgasm. You may be getting treated more gently but you’re still being submissive. Wait until the end of the instructions to orgasm, just as your dominant would make you wait.
- You will need massage oil, a massage bar or a massage candle if you have it. Imagine your dominant telling you to lay down so that they can give you a massage and spend some time playing with you. That’s the fantasy for today. Please make sure the oil is 100% body-safe and if you intend to have sex after you play, remember that oil-based lubricants can break down condoms.
- Create an atmosphere. Make sure that the room you play in is calming. Consider tidying up before you start and add music, incense, candles or dimmed lights to make sure you’re in a peaceful space.
Instructions:
- Start by preparing your space. Spend some time creating a comfortable environment for yourself and if possible, do this whilst you’re naked or in your underwear. Let your mind wander and imagine being massaged, teased, edged and tipped over the edge by your dominant.
- When ready, lay down on your back and remove your clothes. Think about your dominant explaining telling you what position they want you in and explaining what they’re going to do to you.
- Imagine your dominant explaining how you need to display your obedience before beginning. Bend your knees, spread your legs and then slap your clit lightly – once. Say aloud, “Thank you, [title].”
Repeat this ten times, saying thank you after each slap. - Take out your massage oil and drip a small amount over your chest. Use your hands to massage it into your breasts slowly but firmly. Close your eyes as you do this and take 20 long, deep breaths. Count them in your head as you massage.
- Let your hands roam over your body and explore your inner thighs. Imagine your dominant’s hands touching you casually and confidently.
- Once you have explored and massaged for a few minutes, begin to focus on your nipples. Use both hands to touch and play with them directly. Circle them with your fingertips and then pinch and pull. Focus on how they slip through your fingers when you pinch them. Imagine your dominant commenting on how sexy you look whilst you’re being played with, complimenting you for being obedient.
- Trace a line down from your chest to your stomach and then to your thighs. Then, bring your fingertips back up, running a single finger from your entrance to your clit. Do this a few times until your finger is running smoothly and you can feel your wetness, then, add a second finger and continue.
- Spend a few minutes like this, using your wetness to tease your entrance and your clit whilst your free hand plays with your nipples more directly. Embrace the smoothness of the sensation. Imagine your dominant whispering words of encouragement as you get increasingly turned on.
- When you’re desperate for more, stop. Imagine your dominant commenting on how desperate you’re becoming and teasing your further before telling you to be obedient again. Repeat step 3 – slap your clit once, then say, “Thank you, [title].” aloud. Repeat this ten times, gently teasing your nipples between slaps.
- Afterwards, with two fingers, tease your entrance. Slide just the fingertips inside you and open them gently, spreading yourself until your fingertips naturally slip out of you. Then, move your fingers up to your clit and make gentle circles over it, pausing every few seconds to tease your entrance again as you did before. Continue your nipple play as you do this. Spend a few minutes on this step. Take your time – don’t rush. Your dominant would likely take their time playing with you and treating you.
- When you’re desperate for more, slide your fingers inside you, curl them and slowly thrust them in and out. With your fingers curled, this should brush directly over your g-spot. Simultaneously, use your free hand to play with your clit whilst your fingers are inside you. Do this until you are right on the edge.
- Say aloud, “Please may I cum, [title].” and then use whatever techniques you choose to make yourself orgasm.