We already explored creating solo play videos and recording yourself throughout but those instructions were fairly loose. For the most part, you could play in any way you chose, as long as you were taking photos or recording yourself so that you could watch it back and enjoy.
For today, we’re going to add a little more structure. Instead of just leaving you to play however you like, we have a few rules that must be followed to add a little extra to your photos or videos at the end.
As always, if you feel uncomfortable with these instructions or simply aren’t sure they’re right for you – don’t do them! Consider exploring some other categories to find instructions that align with your mood or kink.
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. Whether you’re recording or not. Though, obviously, catching your orgasm on camera may make your video even hotter.
- You will need a camera. A phone will do. However, if you want to have both of your hands free throughout, you may also want to get a tripod of some kind so that you can mount your camera before you start.
- You will need space and privacy. Sound is a big part of arousal and undeniably makes sexy videos even sexier. Try to find a time and space where you can be loud whilst you do this.
- This is not a porn scene. You are not recording a porn scene. You do not need to act in a different way (unless you want to) and you do not need to exaggerate your movements or moans or expressions. This is simply a video or photo-set of you masturbating as you always do. You do not need anything more for it to be sexy.
- Optional: Have a camera operator. Consider asking your partner to record you. This added element of performance may make the whole experience hotter for you or even lead to some more… collaborative activities.
- Rule: Use toys and accessories if you have them. Whether it’s a paddle for a little self-discipline, a butt plug for some anal play or just your favourite vibrator, adding toys and additional elements to your play will add an element of spice to your video.
- Rule: Spend a portion of the video in an explicit position. For most, laying on your back with your legs spread a little is the most comfortable and relaxing way to play. For this video, try spicing it up by spending some time in a different position. This could be on your back with your legs held up and apart, on knees with your face down, reaching between your legs, or even just laying on your side instead of on your back. Anything which adds a new element to the visuals.
- Rule: Explain what you’re doing. Speak aloud and explain how you’re playing. Audio can have a major impact on how aroused you become and verbalising your arousal and your play will only make the video more enjoyable when you watch it back later.
Instructions:
- Start by setting up your camera. You can either hold your camera up as you play (though, this may result in aching arms halfway through and a shaky end result) or you can stand your camera up by leaning it against an object or placing it on a tripod. Whichever you choose, make sure it has enough battery and is positioned to watch you play. Including your face is optional if you are nervous.
- Press record. Don’t worry about how long it’s recording. If you want to, you can edit the video later but even if you don’t, watching you slowly turn yourself on and build yourself up will make the video more genuine, real and sexy.
- Choose a position to start in and focus on teasing yourself. Building yourself up slowly will improve the intensity of your orgasm.
- Use your toys or fingers in whatever explicit position you choose and orgasm. Remember to verbalise what you’re doing and say it loud enough for the camera to pick it up.