I’m sure we can all agree that how dark a space is can have a big impact on what a play session feels like, regardless of whether playing on your own or with others. Today’s session is about exploring specifically the visual part of sensory deprivation, not through a blindfold, but through dimming your lights.
With that said, you’ll need some form of light control to complete these instructions. Don’t worry if you don’t have dimmable lights! These instructions cater to everyone’s lighting setup. Check the rules and information below to see what I mean.
Rules and Information:
- Orgasm control is required. You can only orgasm once all of the lights are off. If you feel yourself reaching the brink and you want to orgasm, make sure to turn your lights off beforehand.
- You will need dimmable lights or multiple light sources in the room where you are playing. Not everyone has dimmable light switches. If you’re in this category, make sure that before you start playing, you have three different light sources in the room where you’re playing. For example, this could be a main light, a lamp, and a candle. Whatever you choose, make sure you can switch to dimmer lighting when the instructions require it.
- Optional: Massage Oil. Some light massaging will be happening. If you have massage oil or massage candle, make sure it’s ready for your play session. Ensure it’s body safe so that you can still play with yourself once the oil is on your fingertips.
- Optional: Play around with your other senses. Whilst we’re experimenting with removing sight, you’re still free to stimulate your other senses. Consider putting some music on, creating unique touch sensations, or adding a nice smelling scent to the air if you’d like.
Instructions:
- Start by putting your lights on their brightest setting. Take your clothes off. Make sure you’re relaxed and accustomed to the brightness before you begin.
- Begin in a kneeling position. Place your hands on top of your thighs and then glide them over your stomach and up to your chest. If you have massage oil with you, apply it to your breasts now. Use your fingertips to caress around the edge of your breasts, spiralling inwards until your fingertips reach your nipples, then pinch and pull on them lightly. Do this three more times. a slow caress that spirals inwards, finishing with a light pinch and pull.
- Now, cup your breasts with each hand. Squeeze gently as your slide your fingertips and thumb together, brushing over your skin and meeting at your nipples. Again, pinch and pull on your nipples until they naturally slide out of your grip. Repeat this massage technique five more times. Cup your breasts, squeeze, and bring your thumb and fingertips together, meeting at your nipples so that you can pinch and pull lightly.
- When finished, continue to repeat step 3 but just with one of your hands. Use your free hand to reach between your legs and begin very slowly playing with your clit. Play at the same pace as your light massaging, slow and steady. Continue this until you are ready for more, swapping which nipple you are playing with as you desire.
- Dim your lights to approximately half of their maximum brightness or, if you are usually multiple light sources, turn your main light off and leave your two remaining lights on.
- Lay on your back. Use one of your fingers to trace a line from your entrance up to your clit. Once you reach there, play with your clit for a few seconds before moving your fingertip back down to rest against your entrance. Repeat this ten more times. Trace a line up to your clit, play gently, then slide it back down.
- Repeat step 6, except this time, when gliding your fingertip back down to your entrance, slide it inside you slightly. Trace a line from your entrance to your clit, play with your clit for a few seconds, move your fingertip back down to your entrance and slide it inside you. Continue to repeat this, sliding your finger further inside you each time. Stop once your finger is fully inside you.
- Dim the lights to approximately one-third of their maximum brightness or turn your second light off.
- Slide your finger back inside you and begin to thrust it gently back and forth. Use whatever technique feels best whilst thrusting like this, but do it slowly. Use your free hand to play with your clit at the same pace. Continue doing this until you’re ready to orgasm.
- Turn all of the lights off. Put down your phone and play however you choose, doing whatever feels best.
- Orgasm.