Today’s instructions focus on relaxation, ambience and sensuality. We are going to explore these themes using massage so, you will need to acquire some if you don’t have any.
Please make sure the oil is 100% body-safe (and sex-toy safe) and if you intend to have sex after you play, remember that oil-based lubricants can break down condoms. Be safe and sensible.
Rules:
- You can orgasm at any time. This is not about control, it’s about relaxation and embracing your pleasure.
- If possible, create an atmosphere. Whether it’s a candle-lit bath, putting some relaxing music on, or both, try to create a calm space where you can sink into the feelings of pleasure without worry.
- Prepare everything you need before starting. This is a rule. Ensure you have everything set up and nearby before you start, we don’t want to break your relaxation because you forgot that you needed your toy.
- You will need massage oil. Pick a scent which you like and ensure it’s body-safe.
- You will need a toy which you can push inside you. If you are using a toy which can easily slide out of you unless held in place (e.g. a dildo or traditional vibrator), keep some underwear nearby, too. Love eggs and small vibrating toys should also be fine.
Instructions
- Take off your clothes, lay down on your back and relax, hands at your sides.
- Breathe deeply. In and out. Close your eyes and count ten deep breaths, then, move onto the next instruction.
- Take out your massage oil and drip a small amount over your chest. Use both hands to massage it into you slowly but firmly.
- Let your hands roam over your body. Feel free to touch your nipples but don’t focus on them yet, just focus on enjoying the silkiness of your skin. Let your hands explore your inner thighs, too. Avoid your clit. Don’t be afraid to add more oil if needed.
- Once you have massaged for a few minutes, begin to focus on your nipples. Use both hands to touch and play with them directly. Circle them with your fingertips and then pinch and pull. Focus on how they slip through your fingers when you pinch them.
- Begin to let one hand work down your body whilst the other continues your nipple play. Trace a line down from your chest to your stomach and then to your thighs. Then, bring your fingertips back up, running a single finger from your entrance to your clit. Do this a few times until your finger is running smoothly and you can feel your wetness, then, add a second finger and continue.
- With two fingers, tease your entrance. Slide just the fingertips inside you and open them gently, spreading yourself until your fingertips naturally slip out of you. Then, move your fingers up to your clit and make gentle circles over it, pausing every few seconds to tease your entrance again as you did before. Continue your nipple play as you do this. Spend a few minutes on this step. Take your time – don’t rush. Embrace the pleasure and once you feel yourself getting desperate or close to cumming, move onto the next instruction.
- Once you feel yourself getting close, take out your toy. Slide your toy inside you, on a low vibration setting if it is a vibrator. If it will not stay inside you by itself, put on some underwear to hold your toy in place.
- With your toy held inside you, trace your fingers up your body and use both hands to play with your nipples again. Brush over them. Circle them. Pinch them. Pull them. Do this until you are right on the brink or desperate for clit play. Turn your vibration up at any point to reach this stage.
- Now, take off your underwear, hold your toy inside you and use your free hand to play with your clit.
- Cum.