Find all of our teasing-themed guided masturbations and instructions below.
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10th January 2023 – Position Training: Kneeling
Kneeling is a common position used by people throughout the kink spectrum. However, kneeling seems to hold a particular presence in BDSM, where it serves as a physical representation of the power exchange during play. As part of this power play, many submissives – whether by their own choice or under instruction from a dominant…
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7th January 2023 – Light Dimming Play
I’m sure we can all agree that how dark a space is can have a big impact on what a play session feels like, regardless of whether playing on your own or with others. Today’s session is about exploring specifically the visual part of sensory deprivation, not through a blindfold, but through dimming your lights.…
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6th January 2023 – Introduction to Edging
We’ve explored elements of edging and teasing before on DEI, but today we’re going to focus on it. If you’re unaware, edging is the act of bringing yourself close to orgasm and then backing off to prolong your play session. For many people, edging repeatedly can lead to more intense orgasms when they finally climax.…
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26th June 2021 – Armchair Play
Today’s session is about playing in one of these very exposed and explicit positions, increasing the dirtiness of your play in the process. All you’ll need is an armchair.
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9th May 2021 – Passion Playlist
Today’s theme is using a sex or masturbation playlist (extra points if you have one of your own) to add a random element to your play. Every time the song changes, you will increase the vibration of your toy, slowly building up the intensity and pleasure before you orgasm.
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6th May 2021 – Submissive Play Session
These instructions focus on adding a submissive element to your session through a little impact play, verbalisation and teasing.
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28th March 2021 – Hourly Tasks
Today’s instructions are a little more free-form. Instead of step-by-step instructions, I will be giving you a list of tasks to complete throughout the day. You can complete them in any order.
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25th March 2021 – Submission with a Remote-Controlled Vibrator
Today’s instructions are themed around remote-controlled vibrators and to take part, you will need a couples vibrator as well as a partner to play with. Many couples vibrators can be operated entirely remotely (as in, over the internet, from anywhere), which makes it possible to complete these instructions even if your partner is halfway across…
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23rd March 2021 – Introduction to Nipplegasms
Today’s instructions are all about nipple play and nipplegasms. Wait! Before you jump into experimenting, remember that if you start to become tired or frustrated, you can stop and just enjoy a regular play session. Don’t feel pressured to try and achieve a nipplegasm when most people can’t.
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2nd March 2021 – Rules: Blindfold, Spanking and Edging
Today’s instructions are rule-based, meaning that you can play however you choose, as long as you follow the rules below.
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19th February 2021 – Late Night Pleasure
The best part of the weekend is you don’t need to worry about getting up early, so, tonight you’re going to stay up a little later than usual. There’s no distinct theme we’re exploring today, it’s just about having fun with some light teasing throughout the evening and an orgasm at midnight.
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14th February 2021 – Outfits
That’s what today is about. Looking and feeling sexy as you play. So, you will need a few outfits you love, your favourite toys and some time alone to get reacquainted with your body and embrace every curve and blemish. Note that there is a large teasing and edging element to this play.
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6th February 2021 – Play Throughout the Day
Today’s instructions are should be completed gradually over the course of the day, building up to a final set of instructions and an orgasm. Often, prolonged teasing and breaks between that teasing can help you reach a level of arousal that is usually impossible, amplifying the intensity and pleasure of your eventual orgasm.
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29th January 2021 – Submissive Being Disciplined
Today’s instructions are a little kinkier. Today, you will be imagining yourself in the position of a submissive being punished or disciplined by your dominant; however, alongside than traditional spanking or impact play, we will be edging instead.