Happy Valentine’s Day!
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, somewhere in between or something completely different, I hope you have a great day filled with love for yourself, friends and family. That said, you’re here for some masturbation instructions and so we shouldn’t delay too long.
The theme of today’s instructions, at their core, is self-love. I’ve repeated thousands of times that masturbation is self-care and that self-care can be provided in a variety of ways. One way is masturbation’s impact on self-image and in turn, confidence. It’s easy in this lockdown world to stay inside all day, internalise your emotions and neglect your need to dress up, look in the mirror and think, “Damn… I look good.”
That’s what today is about. Looking and feeling sexy as you play. So, you will need a few outfits you love, your favourite toys and some time alone to get reacquainted with your body and embrace every curve and blemish. Note that there is a large teasing and edging element to this play so, whilst you are allowed to orgasm at any time, it’s strongly advised that you wait until you have completed all of the instructions.
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. These instructions are not about orgasm control.
- You will need at least three outfits. Pick out your favourite sexy outfits. This could be a dress, a skirt and a top, some shorts and a top, some especially nice pyjamas, just your favourite lingerie – anything that when you put it on, it makes you feel attractive and seductive.
- You will need a mirror. There’s no use in dressing sexily if no one is going to see it. This Valentine’s Day, you get to enjoy how sexy you are.
- You can use toys. The way that you play is not part of the rules, you can use your hands, toys, accessories and anything else that you choose throughout these instructions.
Instructions:
- Put on one of your outfits, ensuring that you can pull aside any necessary clothing to touch yourself directly when needed.
- Stand, sit or lay in front of the mirror – whatever is most comfortable.
- Progressively tease yourself through your clothes, admiring how you look in the mirror as you play. Don’t rush to touch yourself, take your time with teasing caresses that push your clothing aside and make you want a little more.
- When you’re ready for more, start playing with yourself more directly, either through your clothes or after pushing them to the side. Keep your outfit on. Continue to watch in the mirror as you play.
- When you feel yourself getting close. Stop what you are doing, and change into another outfit that you love. Then, start from Step 1 with slow teasing wearing your new outfit.
- Repeat steps 1-5 until you have worn at least three outfits and are (likely) very desperate to orgasm. Then, remove your outfit in front of the mirror, get into a comfortable position and play however you choose until you orgasm.