Remote-controlled vibrators are amazing. They allow for discreet teasing as well as more intense stimulation and what makes them particularly special is that they can be controlled by someone else.
Today’s instructions are themed around remote-controlled vibrators and to take part, you will need a couples vibrator as well as a partner to play with. Many couples vibrators can be operated entirely remotely (as in, over the internet, from anywhere), which makes it possible to complete these instructions even if your partner is halfway across the world. That said, they’re not cheap!
Some brands you can look at are (not sponsored):
- WeVibe – pricey – I’ve used WeVibe products before but prefer Lovense
- LELO – pricey
- Lovense – not cheap but cheaper – I’ve used Lovense products before and personally recommend
- Paloqueth – affordable
- And many other brands and variants, from bluetooth-controlled toys to vibrating panties
These instructions are tailored to submissives looking to give up control or couples who want to try out submission in this type of context.
Rules and Information:
- Wait until the final instruction before orgasming. You are submitting to your partner. Let them grant you permission and control your orgasm.
- You will need a remote-controlled vibrator. There are options out there for all different budgets so find one that works for you.
- You will need a willing partner. Some toys allow you to connect to them remotely and grant your partner control over the internet. If your partner is nearby, they may just want to use a normal remote control – either is fine!
- You will need to message or speak to your partner (and they will need to respond). Make sure you have the time and privacy to play in comfort!
Instructions
- Start by teasing yourself. Take the top half of your outfit off or move it out of the way. Tease, pinch and pull your nipples. Use whatever techniques feel best and imagine your partner doing it for you. If they’re present, let your partner do it for you.
- When you’re ready, combine your nipple play with teasing through your underwear. Focus on your clit. Try to get as much sensation as you can through the fabric. After a minute or so, stop and take the rest of your clothes off.
- Turn onto your front. Face down, ass up. Reach between your legs and use one finger to trace a line from your entrance to your clit. Imagine your partner doing this to you with your wrists pinned or tied behind your back. If they’re there, consider letting them hold your wrists behind you as they play with you, instead. Repeat this slow, teasing play until you can feel how turned on you are against your fingers.
- Stop and slap your clit, once. Imagine your partner dominating and disciplining you as they tease you. Say aloud, “I’m yours, [title]. Please play with me however you choose.”
- Pause, then slap your clit again five more times – count them aloud and afterwards say, “Thank you for disciplining me, [title].”
- Repeat this but with spanking instead. Spank yourself five times on each cheek, counting them aloud and saying, “Thank you for disciplining me, [title].”
- Move onto your back.
- Take your remote-controlled vibrator out and without turning it on, start using it to play with yourself. Use it to stimulate your clit with small circles whilst your free hand massages your breasts and plays with your nipples. Use it to tease your entrance, sliding deeper inside you each time before pulling out. Let your imagination wander or, if your partner is present, let them do it to you instead. Encourage them to describe fantasies to you as they take their time playing with you.
- Keep your vibrator turned off. Use your hands and your toy in whatever way you choose until you know you’re close to orgasming, then stop. If your partner is there, let them play with you. Guide them on how to please you and bring you to the edge.
- Once you’re on the edge, turn your vibrator on and slide it inside you. Keep it on a low setting and let your partner take control. Afterwards, message them or speak to them and ask for permission to orgasm. Allow them to decide whether to tease you further or not.
- Let your partner control your pleasure through the vibrator. If you’re desperate, guide them on how to push you over the edge by asking for what you want.
- Orgasm.