Find all of our guided masturbations and instructions that feature clit play, below.
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14th January 2023 – Submissive Performance
Whilst my content tends to focus on solo play, today’s instructions are designed for couples or for those who have partners they can play with. We will not be focusing on mutual masturbation. Instead, this session will be about performative submission – playing in front of someone as a form of power play whilst exploring…
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13th January 2023 – Productivity Play
I think we can all agree that sometimes play sessions start because we’re procrastinating, bored, or disengaged with whatever we’re doing. There’s nothing inherently wrong with this! That said, sometimes it’s important to avoid procrastination and actually complete the tasks we have in front of us. Today’s instructions are about using play as a reward…
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12th January 2023 – Rules: Gagged
We’re nearing 100 different instructions published and somehow, in all of that time, I’ve never mentioned gags. So, today’s the day! Whilst these instructions are primarily targeted at submissives, those looking to experiment with submission as a fantasy or generally explore their sexuality are encouraged to give them a go. You won’t need much, just…
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10th January 2023 – Position Training: Kneeling
Kneeling is a common position used by people throughout the kink spectrum. However, kneeling seems to hold a particular presence in BDSM, where it serves as a physical representation of the power exchange during play. As part of this power play, many submissives – whether by their own choice or under instruction from a dominant…
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9th January 2023 – Scents and Self-Care
Several recent instructions have incorporated or suggested the use of different sensual items to create an erotic atmosphere. Today’s instructions will focus on scents, particularly incense and scented candles. You won’t need much, just a source for a sensual smell of your choice and the privacy required to enjoy that smell in a calming play…
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8th January 2023 – Rules: Asking for Permission
With rules-based sessions, I don’t tell you exactly how to play, I just give a few guidelines to follow. Today’s session is perfect for submissives and focuses on orgasm control and submission. There is only one rule. You must ask for permission before you orgasm.
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7th January 2023 – Light Dimming Play
I’m sure we can all agree that how dark a space is can have a big impact on what a play session feels like, regardless of whether playing on your own or with others. Today’s session is about exploring specifically the visual part of sensory deprivation, not through a blindfold, but through dimming your lights.…
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6th January 2023 – Introduction to Edging
We’ve explored elements of edging and teasing before on DEI, but today we’re going to focus on it. If you’re unaware, edging is the act of bringing yourself close to orgasm and then backing off to prolong your play session. For many people, edging repeatedly can lead to more intense orgasms when they finally climax.…
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5th January 2023 – Submissive Discipline: Mantra
Today, we’re focused on submission by continuing our submissive discipline series. The submissive discipline series explores ways you can incorporate submission into your solo play through strict or disciplinary tasks, sometimes as a punishment. In these instructions, the task will be to say a submissive mantra that verbalises your submission to your dominant. You do…
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4th January 2023 – Rules: Exclusivity Session
With rules-based sessions, I don’t tell you exactly how to play, I just give a few key guidelines to follow. Today’s session is all about control and experimentation. Instead of simply playing however you like, there are three simple rules.
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3rd January 2023 – Breathing
Today’s session is about breathing, not breath play. Whilst breath play is usually about limiting your breathing, which can be dangerous and should not be done alone, today’s session is about synchronising your breathing with your play instead.
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2nd January 2023 – Cosy Play
One of the best parts about the winter months is escaping the cold by wrapping up in blankets, putting on a movie and curling up on the sofa with a mug of something warm. Today’s session is about carving out some ‘me time’ to get comfy and have a relaxing orgasm.
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24th August 2021 – Submissive Acts and Impact Play
Today’s theme is exploring submissiveness through impact play, dirty positions and submissive acts. You won’t need much, just some underwear and a spanking implement (your hand is enough if that’s all you have).
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29th June 2021 – Rules: Collared Play
Today’s theme is exploring submissive play through wearing a collar. You don’t need a specially made collar, all you need is something to symbolize ownership that can be wrapped around your neck. A choker, a chain necklace, a strip of ribbon – anything can work.
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26th June 2021 – Armchair Play
Today’s session is about playing in one of these very exposed and explicit positions, increasing the dirtiness of your play in the process. All you’ll need is an armchair.
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7th May 2021 – Submissive Tasks Throughout the Day
Today’s instructions are for submissives. This time, instead of a single play session, we will be splitting these instructions into submissive tasks for you to complete throughout the day.
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6th May 2021 – Submissive Play Session
These instructions focus on adding a submissive element to your session through a little impact play, verbalisation and teasing.
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4th April 2021 – Timed Clit Play
Today’s instructions focus on using different clit play techniques in a timed setting, pushing you to try new things until you discover the one that you enjoy most.