Our guided masturbation instructions specifically focused on exploring BDSM and wide power play kink. Perfect for submissive women and vulva-owners.
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14th January 2023 – Submissive Performance
Whilst my content tends to focus on solo play, today’s instructions are designed for couples or for those who have partners they can play with. We will not be focusing on mutual masturbation. Instead, this session will be about performative submission – playing in front of someone as a form of power play whilst exploring…
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12th January 2023 – Rules: Gagged
We’re nearing 100 different instructions published and somehow, in all of that time, I’ve never mentioned gags. So, today’s the day! Whilst these instructions are primarily targeted at submissives, those looking to experiment with submission as a fantasy or generally explore their sexuality are encouraged to give them a go. You won’t need much, just…
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10th January 2023 – Position Training: Kneeling
Kneeling is a common position used by people throughout the kink spectrum. However, kneeling seems to hold a particular presence in BDSM, where it serves as a physical representation of the power exchange during play. As part of this power play, many submissives – whether by their own choice or under instruction from a dominant…
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8th January 2023 – Rules: Asking for Permission
With rules-based sessions, I don’t tell you exactly how to play, I just give a few guidelines to follow. Today’s session is perfect for submissives and focuses on orgasm control and submission. There is only one rule. You must ask for permission before you orgasm.
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5th January 2023 – Submissive Discipline: Mantra
Today, we’re focused on submission by continuing our submissive discipline series. The submissive discipline series explores ways you can incorporate submission into your solo play through strict or disciplinary tasks, sometimes as a punishment. In these instructions, the task will be to say a submissive mantra that verbalises your submission to your dominant. You do…
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24th August 2021 – Submissive Acts and Impact Play
Today’s theme is exploring submissiveness through impact play, dirty positions and submissive acts. You won’t need much, just some underwear and a spanking implement (your hand is enough if that’s all you have).
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29th June 2021 – Rules: Collared Play
Today’s theme is exploring submissive play through wearing a collar. You don’t need a specially made collar, all you need is something to symbolize ownership that can be wrapped around your neck. A choker, a chain necklace, a strip of ribbon – anything can work.
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7th May 2021 – Submissive Tasks Throughout the Day
Today’s instructions are for submissives. This time, instead of a single play session, we will be splitting these instructions into submissive tasks for you to complete throughout the day.
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6th May 2021 – Submissive Play Session
These instructions focus on adding a submissive element to your session through a little impact play, verbalisation and teasing.
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30th March 2021 – Introduction to Orgasm Denial
Whilst typically associated with BDSM, orgasm denial and edging can be interesting ways of introducing a new sensation to your play. There’s no denying that taking things slow and teasing yourself can amplify the intensity and pleasure of your orgasms; edging and orgasm denial are just the next step.
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25th March 2021 – Submission with a Remote-Controlled Vibrator
Today’s instructions are themed around remote-controlled vibrators and to take part, you will need a couples vibrator as well as a partner to play with. Many couples vibrators can be operated entirely remotely (as in, over the internet, from anywhere), which makes it possible to complete these instructions even if your partner is halfway across…
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20th March 2021 – Submissive Discipline: Body Writing
Today, we’re going to be trying some new ways of adding an element of submission into your play, even if you’re alone or without your dominant. This is a continuation of a series on submissive discipline, where we assign tasks that must be completed as an act of submission alongside your play.
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12th March 2021 – Audio Porn for Submissives
The rule for today’s play session is to try out some audio porn for submissives. The best part about this medium is that it genuinely has content for every kink and niche. If you’re a fan of BDSM, today’s instructions are about you searching for audio clips which tap into that kink as much as…
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7th March 2021 – Submission in the Shower with Verbalisation
Today, you’ll be playing in the shower. Whilst these instructions are tailored for submissives, they’re also for anyone who wants to explore submissive fantasies as they play. All you’ll need is space to verbalise and a shower to use.
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6th March 2021 – Sensory Deprivation
Today’s instructions are all about removing multiple senses at once. In particular, removing your hearing and sight. Sensory deprivation is often associated with BDSM and general submission but can be enjoyed by all. The key to sensory deprivation is understanding that removing certain senses makes other sensations more intense – it allows your mind to…
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25th February 2021 – Exploring Impact Play
Today’s instructions are for the submissives (or explorers) who know they enjoy impact play but want to try something different. Typically, impact play involves spanking using your hand or other accessories like paddles. For more advanced BDSM fans, you have floggers, canes and several other tools you can use to add a sweet sting to…
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24th February 2021 – Rules: Tied and Begging
Today we’re keeping things short and sweet. Nothing too complex, just a regular play session with a few rules added to make things interesting. These rules are tailored more towards submissives but can be enjoyed by anyone.
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23rd February 2021 – Creating Audio Porn
Now that we’ve tried out audio porn and experimented with how sound can impact our pleasure, it’s time to take it to the next level and create some of our own.
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21st February 2021 – Submission and Massage Oil
Whilst spanking and slapping will still feature a little, the primary point of these instructions is to promote fantasies of loving dominance where your submission is encouraged through teasing and words alone. Let your mind wander as you play! Imagine your dominant teasing you, playing with you and making you melt in their arms.
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10th February 2021 – Submissive Discipline: Writing Lines
It’s been a little while since we did some instructions which are more tailored to submissives. With that in mind, we’re going to be trying some new ways of adding an element of submission into your play, even if you’re alone or without your partner.
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6th February 2021 – Play Throughout the Day
Today’s instructions are should be completed gradually over the course of the day, building up to a final set of instructions and an orgasm. Often, prolonged teasing and breaks between that teasing can help you reach a level of arousal that is usually impossible, amplifying the intensity and pleasure of your eventual orgasm.
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29th January 2021 – Submissive Being Disciplined
Today’s instructions are a little kinkier. Today, you will be imagining yourself in the position of a submissive being punished or disciplined by your dominant; however, alongside than traditional spanking or impact play, we will be edging instead.
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25th January 2021 – Nipple Clamps/Pegs
Whilst yesterday’s instructions where a gentle, sensual entry into the world of submission during play, today’s are a return to the more direct and rough approach. These instructions are for slightly masochistic submissives who enjoy a little pain with their pleasure.
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24th January 2021 – Submission in the Bath with Verbalisation
Today’s instructions are tailored to those who want to explore submission slowly, without immediately being thrust into rough play. Instead, this is a more sensual approach to submission, where you will imagine you are in the bath with your dominant and they are playing with you throughout.
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19th January 2021 – Mirror Submission and Verbalisation
Today’s instructions are focused on submission, control and kink. You will need a mirror and some time alone to verbalize that submission aloud whilst you play.
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18th January 2021 – Blindfolded Submission and Verbalisation
Today’s instructions are focused on submission, control and kink. You will need some time alone to verbalise that submission aloud whilst you play.