Find all of our orgasm control-themed guided masturbations and instructions below.
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14th January 2023 – Submissive Performance
Whilst my content tends to focus on solo play, today’s instructions are designed for couples or for those who have partners they can play with. We will not be focusing on mutual masturbation. Instead, this session will be about performative submission – playing in front of someone as a form of power play whilst exploring…
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10th January 2023 – Position Training: Kneeling
Kneeling is a common position used by people throughout the kink spectrum. However, kneeling seems to hold a particular presence in BDSM, where it serves as a physical representation of the power exchange during play. As part of this power play, many submissives – whether by their own choice or under instruction from a dominant…
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8th January 2023 – Rules: Asking for Permission
With rules-based sessions, I don’t tell you exactly how to play, I just give a few guidelines to follow. Today’s session is perfect for submissives and focuses on orgasm control and submission. There is only one rule. You must ask for permission before you orgasm.
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4th January 2023 – Rules: Exclusivity Session
With rules-based sessions, I don’t tell you exactly how to play, I just give a few key guidelines to follow. Today’s session is all about control and experimentation. Instead of simply playing however you like, there are three simple rules.
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24th August 2021 – Submissive Acts and Impact Play
Today’s theme is exploring submissiveness through impact play, dirty positions and submissive acts. You won’t need much, just some underwear and a spanking implement (your hand is enough if that’s all you have).
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30th March 2021 – Introduction to Orgasm Denial
Whilst typically associated with BDSM, orgasm denial and edging can be interesting ways of introducing a new sensation to your play. There’s no denying that taking things slow and teasing yourself can amplify the intensity and pleasure of your orgasms; edging and orgasm denial are just the next step.
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28th March 2021 – Hourly Tasks
Today’s instructions are a little more free-form. Instead of step-by-step instructions, I will be giving you a list of tasks to complete throughout the day. You can complete them in any order.
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25th March 2021 – Submission with a Remote-Controlled Vibrator
Today’s instructions are themed around remote-controlled vibrators and to take part, you will need a couples vibrator as well as a partner to play with. Many couples vibrators can be operated entirely remotely (as in, over the internet, from anywhere), which makes it possible to complete these instructions even if your partner is halfway across…
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20th March 2021 – Submissive Discipline: Body Writing
Today, we’re going to be trying some new ways of adding an element of submission into your play, even if you’re alone or without your dominant. This is a continuation of a series on submissive discipline, where we assign tasks that must be completed as an act of submission alongside your play.
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2nd March 2021 – Rules: Blindfold, Spanking and Edging
Today’s instructions are rule-based, meaning that you can play however you choose, as long as you follow the rules below.
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19th February 2021 – Late Night Pleasure
The best part of the weekend is you don’t need to worry about getting up early, so, tonight you’re going to stay up a little later than usual. There’s no distinct theme we’re exploring today, it’s just about having fun with some light teasing throughout the evening and an orgasm at midnight.
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16th February 2021 – The 5 Card Masturbation Challenge
Today’s instructions are about turning your play session into a game, adding elements of unpredictability and teasing. The core theme of this game is being adventurous and edging yourself throughout. As a result, you will need to feel a little daring before you start because you may be asked by the game to try new…
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10th February 2021 – Submissive Discipline: Writing Lines
It’s been a little while since we did some instructions which are more tailored to submissives. With that in mind, we’re going to be trying some new ways of adding an element of submission into your play, even if you’re alone or without your partner.
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6th February 2021 – Play Throughout the Day
Today’s instructions are should be completed gradually over the course of the day, building up to a final set of instructions and an orgasm. Often, prolonged teasing and breaks between that teasing can help you reach a level of arousal that is usually impossible, amplifying the intensity and pleasure of your eventual orgasm.
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29th January 2021 – Submissive Being Disciplined
Today’s instructions are a little kinkier. Today, you will be imagining yourself in the position of a submissive being punished or disciplined by your dominant; however, alongside than traditional spanking or impact play, we will be edging instead.
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25th January 2021 – Nipple Clamps/Pegs
Whilst yesterday’s instructions where a gentle, sensual entry into the world of submission during play, today’s are a return to the more direct and rough approach. These instructions are for slightly masochistic submissives who enjoy a little pain with their pleasure.
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21st January 2021 – Tasks
Today’s instructions are different. Today, you will be playing over the course of the day, rather than all at once. These instructions are about exhibiting self-control and, just as importantly, being rewarded for your discipline with the more intense climax that always comes when you’ve spent time being teased and are even more turned on.
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18th January 2021 – Blindfolded Submission and Verbalisation
Today’s instructions are focused on submission, control and kink. You will need some time alone to verbalise that submission aloud whilst you play.