Find all of our control-themed guided masturbations and instructions below.
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14th January 2023 – Submissive Performance
Whilst my content tends to focus on solo play, today’s instructions are designed for couples or for those who have partners they can play with. We will not be focusing on mutual masturbation. Instead, this session will be about performative submission – playing in front of someone as a form of power play whilst exploring…
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5th January 2023 – Submissive Discipline: Mantra
Today, we’re focused on submission by continuing our submissive discipline series. The submissive discipline series explores ways you can incorporate submission into your solo play through strict or disciplinary tasks, sometimes as a punishment. In these instructions, the task will be to say a submissive mantra that verbalises your submission to your dominant. You do…
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4th January 2023 – Rules: Exclusivity Session
With rules-based sessions, I don’t tell you exactly how to play, I just give a few key guidelines to follow. Today’s session is all about control and experimentation. Instead of simply playing however you like, there are three simple rules.
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29th June 2021 – Rules: Collared Play
Today’s theme is exploring submissive play through wearing a collar. You don’t need a specially made collar, all you need is something to symbolize ownership that can be wrapped around your neck. A choker, a chain necklace, a strip of ribbon – anything can work.
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9th May 2021 – Passion Playlist
Today’s theme is using a sex or masturbation playlist (extra points if you have one of your own) to add a random element to your play. Every time the song changes, you will increase the vibration of your toy, slowly building up the intensity and pleasure before you orgasm.
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30th March 2021 – Introduction to Orgasm Denial
Whilst typically associated with BDSM, orgasm denial and edging can be interesting ways of introducing a new sensation to your play. There’s no denying that taking things slow and teasing yourself can amplify the intensity and pleasure of your orgasms; edging and orgasm denial are just the next step.
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25th March 2021 – Submission with a Remote-Controlled Vibrator
Today’s instructions are themed around remote-controlled vibrators and to take part, you will need a couples vibrator as well as a partner to play with. Many couples vibrators can be operated entirely remotely (as in, over the internet, from anywhere), which makes it possible to complete these instructions even if your partner is halfway across…
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20th March 2021 – Submissive Discipline: Body Writing
Today, we’re going to be trying some new ways of adding an element of submission into your play, even if you’re alone or without your dominant. This is a continuation of a series on submissive discipline, where we assign tasks that must be completed as an act of submission alongside your play.
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25th February 2021 – Exploring Impact Play
Today’s instructions are for the submissives (or explorers) who know they enjoy impact play but want to try something different. Typically, impact play involves spanking using your hand or other accessories like paddles. For more advanced BDSM fans, you have floggers, canes and several other tools you can use to add a sweet sting to…
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24th February 2021 – Rules: Tied and Begging
Today we’re keeping things short and sweet. Nothing too complex, just a regular play session with a few rules added to make things interesting. These rules are tailored more towards submissives but can be enjoyed by anyone.
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10th February 2021 – Submissive Discipline: Writing Lines
It’s been a little while since we did some instructions which are more tailored to submissives. With that in mind, we’re going to be trying some new ways of adding an element of submission into your play, even if you’re alone or without your partner.