Today’s instructions are for the submissives (or explorers) who know they enjoy impact play but want to try something different. Typically, impact play involves spanking using your hand or other accessories like paddles. For more advanced BDSM fans, you have floggers, canes and several other tools you can use to add a sweet sting to your pleasure.
Today, we’re ignoring all of that. Today is about trying new things, which is why you will need to find three different household items which you can use as a self-spanking implement. These could be hairbrushes, wooden spoons, wooden rulers, spatulas or anything long, flat and handheld.
These instructions aren’t designed to leave you bruised (unless you want that) so, as always, if you’re not enjoying yourself or simply not comfortable – don’t worry! There are plenty of other instructions for submissives covering everything from punishment to more spanking and slapping. I’m sure there is something which you will enjoy.
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. This is not about orgasm control, it’s about exploration.
- You will need three spanking implements. These could be hairbrushes, wooden spoons, wooden rulers, spatulas or anything long, flat and handheld.
- Ask for permission before orgasming. Say, “Please may I cum, [title].” aloud before you orgasm.
- Be safe. If you are uncomfortable or worried, stop! Your safety and enjoyment matter more than anything.
- Toys are optional. But only during the final instruction.
Instructions:
- Set the scene. Imagine your dominant deciding to discipline you before or during your play. Imagine what they would say and how they would behave. Imagine them telling you to get your spanking implements.
- Collect whatever three household items you’ve chosen and place them next to where you are going to play. Then, take your clothes off until you are just wearing your underwear. Remove your bra.
- Lay on your back and spend a few minutes just relaxing. Let your imagination wander and imagine yourself being dominated. Let your hands roam up and down your body as you daydream like this, brushing over your nipples, massaging your breasts, caressing your stomach and your thighs.
- When ready, turn onto your side. Lift your knee slightly so that you’re more comfortable, then, imagine your dominant explaining how you’ve been bad and they’re going to discipline you. Afterwards, spank yourself 10 times on the same cheek. Count aloud as you do this and once you have done 10, turn over and spank your other cheek 10 times, counting aloud again.
- Turn back onto your back, spread your legs and begin to tease your clit through your underwear. Use whatever technique feels best. Do this until you can feel yourself getting wet through your underwear, then stop and remove the rest of your clothing.
- Return to laying on your back with your legs spread. Trace your fingertips down your body and up your thighs, avoiding anywhere sensitive. Then, use one hand to spread your labia and the other to trace a line from your clit to your entrance and back again. Be gentle and slow. Do this for around 30 seconds.
- Stop and slap your clit five times. Between each slap, pause and say, “I will be obedient for you, [title].” aloud. Then relax.
- When ready, turn back onto your side and take one of your spanking implements. Place one hand between your legs and begin to slowly play with your clit. Be gentle but direct. Use whatever technique feels best. Simultaneously, every few seconds, spank yourself with the implement. Count each spank aloud until you reach ten. Then stop, move to your other side and repeat for the other cheek. After you have done 20 spanks with clit play, say, “Thank you for disciplining me, [title].” aloud, stop and relax for a few seconds.
- Replace your spanking implement with a different one. Repeat Step 8 doing 20 spanks, then on each cheek, except this time instead of playing with your clit, slide your fingers inside you instead. Complete the spanks, counting each one and saying “Thank you for disciplining me, [title].” at the end whilst your fingers are inside you, thrusting and playing in whatever way feels best for you. Now stop and relax for a few seconds.
- This is the second last instruction. Your dominant has decided that before you orgasm, you need one more disciplining session. Take the third spanking implement and move onto your knees with your ass in the air. Use the implement to spank yourself in this position – again, count each spank aloud and do ten for each cheek, saying, “Thank you for disciplining me, [title].” at the end. Use your free hand to reach between your legs and play with yourself however you choose during this step.
- Finally, lay on your back and use your favourite toys or techniques to orgasm.