Today’s instructions are short and simple again. No in-depth step-by-step instructions, just a few rules for you to follow as you play. This time, the core theme will be mutual masturbation. I know, I know – it’s nearly Valentine’s Day and many of us can’t see our partners and many more of us are single and don’t need to be reminded of that. Don’t worry, tomorrow and on Valentine’s Day, we will be doing completely inclusive instructions.
That said, if you do have a partner around and you think they’d be interested in trying out some mutual masturbation, these instructions are for you. Mutual masturbation can be incredibly sensual, arousing and unifying, as well as helping you identify what your partner likes to do to themselves to inform how you play with them later.
The instructions are purposefully open-ended as this is about initial exploration – there are only a few rules to follow.
Rules and Information:
- Kissing only. That also means no sex. This is about exploring something new.
- Be vocal! Talk, fantasise, be bold, be explicit. Communicate and it will make the whole experience even more enjoyable and valuable.
- Choose: Watch something, listen to something or watch each other. I recommend watching each other but watching a hot video together can also be enjoyable.
- Carve out some time. Mutual masturbation is about connection. It’s hard to connect with your partner if your room is a mess and you’re on a time limit! Try to create a space you’re both comfortable in and give yourselves time to enjoy each other fully.
- Use toys. If you have them, use them!
Instructions:
- Take your time setting the scene. Consider getting things ready with your partner so that you can spend the prep time teasing each other and being a little dirty.
- Play in whatever way you choose with your partner by your side.
- Orgasm when ready.