Whilst my content tends to focus on solo play, today’s instructions are designed for couples or for those who have partners they can play with.
We will not be focusing on mutual masturbation. Instead, this session will be about performative submission – playing in front of someone as a form of power play whilst exploring themes of voyeurism, obedience, and exhibitionism.
Note that whilst these instructions explore submissive themes, they can be enjoyed by couples not interested in power dynamics.
You won’t need much, just someone to watch you whilst you play!
Rules and Information:
- You must wait for permission before you orgasm. As part of these instructions, you will be asking whoever is watching to grant you permission to orgasm.
- You will need an audience. This could be one person or multiple people, as long as they have consented to watch you play.
- Your audience will be in control. Throughout the instructions, your audience will be able to give commands and control the way you are playing.
- You will need privacy to verbalise your submission. Speaking your submission aloud can add something extra to your experience.
- Optional: Wear submissive clothing. To get in the right mindset, you may want to wear a submissive outfit or some kinky accessories. This could be anything from lingerie to a collar. Note that you will need to be able to play in whatever outfit you choose, so try not to select complex or restrictive clothing.
- Optional: Use your toys. If you have toys that you love to play with, feel free to use them.
Instructions:
- Ensure you have a suitable audience and space for your play session.
- If you have submissive attire, put it on. Consider allowing a member of your audience to help you get dressed.
- Tell the audience about the commands that they can use to control you whilst you play. Here are some commands you can introduce, or you can choose your own:
- Slow down – continue what you are doing, but slow down your play.
- Speed up – continue what you are doing, but speed up your play.
- Stop – stop what you are doing. Ask for permission to continue playing in whatever way you choose.
- Speak – say something to the audience e.g. describe how you’re feeling or repeat a submissive phrase.
- Move to “X” position – change to whatever position has been requested.
- Orgasm – permission is granted to orgasm.
- Assume whatever position you would like and begin playing in whatever way you choose. Follow the commands of the audience as you play but other than that, you are in control of your play.
- When you are ready to orgasm, ask for permission.
- Once permission has been granted – orgasm.