Today, we’re focused on submission by continuing our submissive discipline series. The submissive discipline series explores ways you can incorporate submission into your solo play through strict or disciplinary tasks, sometimes as a punishment.
In these instructions, the task will be to say a submissive mantra that verbalises your submission to your dominant. You do not need a dominant present, just one in your mind. Over the course of the instructions, we will develop and verbalise submisssive phrases whilst we play before concluding with a short mantra to repeat whilst you orgasm.
We’ll be exploring all of this using a toy and a little impact play.
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. This is not about orgasm control.
- You must say the mantra before orgasming. The mantra is on the final step. You can skip to this if you’re on the brink of orgasming before finishing the instructions.
- You will need a vibrator or dildo. Any sex toy large enough for you to ride.
- You will need space to verbalise. The mantra, and the phrases that come before it, need to be spoken aloud. Whispering is okay if you need to be quiet.
- Optional: Lube. Prefer to lube up your toys? Apply lube freely throughout these instructions. Just remember to not use silicone-based lube with silicone-based toys.
Instructions:
- Start by taking out your toy. Make sure it’s within arms reach of wherever you’re going to play.
- Take your clothes off and kneel down. Place your hands on your thighs with your legs apart so that you can easily reach between your legs.
- Take some time to get comfortable. Run your fingertips up your thighs and your stomach, brushing over your nipples, gliding them up to your neck.
- Once your hands reach your neck, place your hands behind your head, lifting your hair and holding it up (if you have hair to hold). Stay in this position, kneeling, legs apart, hands behind your head, back straight. Imagine your dominant tying your wrists like this, holding you in place and playing with you. Count to 10, then run your fingertips back down your body, over your nipples and stomach, before resting them on your thighs again.
- Repeat step 4 two more times. Fingertips brushing up to your neck, hands behind your head, counting on display for 10 seconds, then back down to your thighs again.
- Move onto your back.
- Now, repeat step 4 but with some small changes. Instead of starting at your thighs, start with your fingertips brushed against your entrance. Imagine your dominant teasing you whilst you glide your fingertips as lightly as possible up from your entrance, very gently over your clit, up your stomach and to your nipples again. Stop at your nipples, pinching gently and pulling until they naturally slip through your fingertips. Say aloud, “Thank you, [title].”
- Repeat step 7 at least three more times, stopping when you can feel how wet you are against your fingertips. Each time you repeat, be slightly firmer with your touch, a little rougher with your nipples and brush over your entrance and your clit more directly. Don’t forget to say “Thank you, [title].” each time.
- Once you’re wet and ready to continue, pick up your toy. Add some lube to the head if you desire. With your legs apart, use the head of the toy to trace a line between your entrance and your clit, using the lube to make it easier to glide between the two points. Do not slide your toy inside you, yet. Continue to slide between your entrance and your clit as you read the next instruction.
- Begin to focus on your clit. Use the head of the toy to brush back and forth directly over your clit, or switch to small circles if that feels better. Use your free hand to play with your nipples. Imagine your dominant playing with you like this whilst you’re being teased. Continue this until you’re wanting more.
- When ready, move the head of the toy to your entrance and slide it inside you as little as possible before pulling it back out again. Add more lube if you’d like. After pulling the toy out, move the head back up to your clit and spend a few seconds brushing it back and forth before returning it to your entrance and sliding it back inside you a little more than before. Repeat this process, sliding in a little, pulling out, playing with your clit and sliding in a little more, until you can comfortably slide the toy fully inside you. Use lube as much as you like.
- Once comfortable, move back onto your knees.
- Hold the base of the toy and slowly slide yourself onto it. Stop moving once it’s fully inside you.
- With your toy inside you fully, assume the position from before. Hands behind your head, holding your hair up (if applicable) and legs apart. Say aloud, “I belong to [title].” then wait a few seconds and say it again.
- With your toy still inside you, move your hands to your nipples. Pinch and pull, as before, until they naturally slip through your fingers. Once they do slip through your fingers, say aloud, “My body is [title]’s property.” Repeat this three times – pinch, pull, then verbalise your submission.
- With your toy still inside you, move one hand to your clit. Begin to play with your clit in whatever way feels best and count to five. After five seconds, stop, slap your clit once and say aloud, “[Title] can use me whenever they like.” Repeat this three times. Five seconds of clit play, one clit slap and verbalise your submission.
- Holding the base of the toy, begin to ride it slowly, increasing in intensity and speed until it’s comfortable for you and feels best. Play with your clit as you ride your toy like this. Play however you choose in this position until you’re close to orgasming.
- Before you orgasm, say aloud, “I belong to [title]. My body is [title]’s property. [Title] can use me whenever they like.” then orgasm.