As usual with rules-based instructions, I won’t be telling you exactly how to play. Instead, I’ll just be laying out some rules for you to follow during your play session, wherever and however you choose to enjoy it.
Today’s theme is exploring submissive play through wearing a collar. Collars are typically associated with ownership and whilst it can be difficult to create a feeling of submission when playing on your own, wearing a collar can add that little extra spice to your session.
You don’t need a specially made collar (though, definitely think about getting one if you find yourself enjoying these instructions). All you need is something to symbolize ownership that can be wrapped around your neck. A choker, a chain necklace, a strip of ribbon – anything can work.
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. This is not about orgasm control, it’s about control and submission.
- You will need a collar. If you have one already, use it. If not, try using a chain necklace, a strip of fabric or a choker. If you have a partner, consider asking them what you should use to add an extra layer to your submissive play.
- Consider getting someone else involved. Have someone that you regularly sext or a partner who isn’t around? Message them. Tell them that you’re wearing a collar or even better, ask them what collar you should wear. Incorporate them into your fantasies whilst you play.
- You will need a mirror. Putting your collar on in front of a mirror will help get you into a submissive space.
- Use your favourite techniques. Relax and enjoy yourself. There’s no pressure.
Instructions:
- Find a mirror – preferably full length.
- Take off your clothes.
- Watch in the mirror as you start to play with yourself. Be teasing. Take it slow and steady. Avoid anywhere too sensitive – use this time to explore your body with your hands and begin fantasising about submissive scenarios you’d enjoy.
- After a minute or two, watch in the mirror as you put your collar on. Imagine you are doing it for your dominant.
- Find a comfortable position.
- Play.
- Orgasm.