Today’s instructions are for submissives. This time, instead of a single play session, we will be splitting these instructions into submissive tasks for you to complete.
As always, if there is a task on this list that you don’t think you’d enjoy – don’t do it! Masturbation is about self-care and pleasure. If you aren’t enjoying yourself, it’s not worth it.
That said, here are today’s submissive tasks.
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. Whilst these instructions are themed around submission, they are not about orgasm control.
- You will need a toy. A small toy like a bullet, love egg or remote-controlled vibrator.
- You will be playing in unusual places. Make sure that if you choose to go somewhere semi-public (though, you don’t have to), you are safe, law-abiding and wearing an appropriate outfit.
- You will need a body-safe marker. Thick-tipped and bold against your skin, preferably.
- Be prepared to message your partner. If you don’t have one, consider a love interest instead. If no one comes to mind, that’s okay – you can complete all the tasks alone, too.
- Optional: camera. You may want to send pictures to your partner or simply take them for yourself.
Task 1: Bodywriting
If possible, do this first thing in the morning after you have showered. Take your body-safe marker, remove your clothes and kneel in front of the mirror. Write a submissive name on your body – this could be a name that you are called by your partner, it could be a name you fantasize about and it could be degrading, affectionate or apathetic. It’s entirely up to you.
Some good places for body writing are underneath your breasts (though, sweat can wash the writing off after some time), along your ribs, along the inside of your thighs, across your chest or just below your navel. The size of the text is entirely up to you.
Spend the rest of the day with this body writing on your skin. Nobody else will know it’s there except you. If you choose, you can take a picture and share the body writing with your partner. Ensure they consent before sending lewd images!
Task 2: Toys in Non-erotic Settings
Spend at least 30 minutes with your toy of choice inside you. Ensure you are wearing clothes over the top. Continue your day as normal whilst your toy is inside you.
This does not have to take place in public, outdoors or even in conversation with others. As long as your toy is inside you and you are walking around and doing things like it’s a normal day, that is enough to complete this task.
Task 3: Play in Unusual Places
This task is simple. Spend at least five minutes playing with your clit. The only rule is that you cannot play somewhere familiar or normal for you. If you usually masturbate in the bedroom, that room is off-limits. Similarly, if you normally masturbate in the shower, that is also off-limits. You must play somewhere that feels a little different – almost as if your dominant was choosing to play with you wherever they chose.
Task 4: Porn for Your Partner
Finally, spend some time watching female-friendly porn. Find a video that turns you on and then send it to your partner or love interest (ensure they consent to receiving this type of content!). Explain to your partner what you liked most about the video and, if you’re feeling confident, ask for elements of the video to be reenacted with you. Communication is key to Dom/sub relationships – exercise that skill through this task.
After completing these tasks, you can play however you choose and orgasm.