Whilst typically associated with BDSM, orgasm denial and edging can be interesting ways of introducing a new sensation to your play. There’s no denying that taking things slow and teasing yourself can amplify the intensity and pleasure of your orgasms; edging and orgasm denial are just the next step.
I am a huge advocate of orgasms for all but that doesn’t mean that a little denial can’t make things better in the long run – which is exactly what we’re going to be experimenting with.
You won’t need much and I won’t be giving you a huge amount of guidance, you just need time, privacy and willpower to stop… much easier said than done!
Rules and Information:
- You cannot orgasm during this play session. Come back tomorrow for instructions on how to satisfy yourself.
- Play until you’re on the brink of orgasm. Then stop. This is an introduction to orgasm denial – don’t feel obliged to keep playing and edge yourself (unless you want to).
- These instructions are about experimentation. Whether you’re a seasoned submissive used to practising orgasm denial or just a curious individual who wants to see how it will feel, this is about you and your pleasure. You are in control.
- Optional: use toys. Love to play with your toys? Use them! Just make sure you don’t get carried away and push yourself over the edge.
Instructions:
- Find somewhere comfortable and relaxed to play.
- Tease yourself. Don’t rush to the main event. Build up your arousal and desire.
- Use your favourite techniques to bring yourself to the brink of orgasming.
- Stop. Take time to relax and finish playing.
- Come back tomorrow for orgasm instructions.