The best way to get to know your body is through solo play. This solo play exploration includes trying new positions, which is why today’s instructions are about trying a specific sensation – cowgirl.
You won’t need much, just a large enough toy to ride.
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. This is not about control.
- You will need a toy which can stand up. Any rideable toy will do, whether it’s a suction cup dildo or a Sybian with attachments.
- Try different speeds and techniques. You might have experience riding a toy or being on top. If you do, use this session to experiment! Try different methods to see if there are new ways for you to enjoy the cowgirl position, whether it’s squatting, bouncing on your knees or simply rotating your hips differently.
Instructions:
- Take your clothes off and relax.
- Spend a few minutes getting comfortable. Use whatever techniques you prefer. Tease yourself using your toys, let your mind wander with fantasies and take your time.
- When ready, move onto your knees. Slide yourself onto your toy slowly, using one of your hands to trace small circles over your clit as you do. Begin to slide up and down your toy, taking your time whilst continuing your slow and purposeful clit play. Continue this for a few minutes.
- Whilst you kneel and play, begin to experiment with your positioning. Try having your knees wider apart or closer together. See whether it feels better when your back is straight compared to when you’re bent over. Explore the sensations and continue your clit play throughout.
- After exploring kneeling whilst you ride, try moving to your feet. Squatting as your ride is a lot more demanding but can feel completely different, too. Again, play with your clit whilst you do this. Be slow and purposeful like you were before. Experiment with how positioning your body impacts your pleasure. Find the best angle.
- When ready, return to the position and angle which felt best. Focus on the speed and techniques which bring you the most pleasure and continue them.
- Orgasm.