Today, we’re going to be trying some new ways of adding an element of submission into your play, even if you’re alone or without your dominant. This is a continuation of a series on submissive discipline, where we assign tasks that must be completed as an act of submission alongside your play.
The main theme of these instructions will be body writing. Body writing is a common technique used by dominants in a variety of ways. Today, you will write on your own body using whatever names, phrases or statements turn you on most. Alternatively, you can get a partner to help.
This should add a new element to your submissive solo play and, hopefully, help you find a new way of incorporating kink into your masturbation.
Rules and Information:
- You can only orgasm after the final instruction. D/s play is fundamentally grounded in control. In these instructions, you will be earning your orgasm by writing names on your body whilst you play. Once you have written at least ten, you will be able to orgasm.
- Wear nothing. Remove all of your clothes. If you have a collar which you like to wear, put it on. You will need to have your entire body available to write on.
- You will need a body-safe marker. Thick-tipped and bold against your skin, preferably.
- You will need a vibrator with variable settings. This needs to be a vibrator that can stay inside you whilst you are kneeling. Wands can work if you prefer clitoral stimulation, just hold it between your legs using your thighs.
- Optional: use a mirror. If you have a full-length mirror, it will be easier to what you’re doing and what you’re writing.
- Optional: bring a camera. Want to have a record of your submission for future reference or to share with your partner? Make sure you have a camera nearby.
Instructions:
- Begin removing your clothes and if you have a full-length mirror, kneel in front of it so that you can watch yourself play.
- Spend the next few minutes warming yourself up. Tease yourself with gentle touches, avoiding anywhere sensitive. Close your eyes and fantasize about being teased and played with by your dominant. Imagine what they would say to you as they kiss up your neck and run their hands up and down your body.
- When aroused and wet, change from just teasing to more direct play. Continue to be slow and gentle but begin playing with your clit, using whatever technique you prefer. Do this for less than a minute, closing your eyes and continuing your fantasy about being played with by your dominant.
- Now, take out your vibrator. Lube it if necessary, running the tip from your entrance to your clit and back again. When ready, set the vibration level to a low setting and slide the toy inside you before kneeling with your legs spread, back straight, hands on your thighs. Stay like this for a moment.
- With your toy vibrating inside you, write two names or phrases on your body. These could be names or phrases of any kind, as long as they turn you on. Maybe an affectionate submissive nickname that your dominant uses? Or a harsher, more degrading phrase that always makes you melt? Anything you like. Make sure that you take your time writing it slowly and clearly. Focus on the task. Use the mirror to help. Write the words backwards if you want it to look good in photos or in the mirror.
- Once you have written two words or phrases, lean back and spend 30 seconds gently playing with your clit. Then, slap it gently, twice.
- After writing the words and completing your clit play, remove your vibrator. Use its vibration to stimulate your clit and then increase the vibration to a medium setting. Slide your toy back inside you and sit back up, ready to write.
- Repeat steps 5 and 6 two more times until you have six words or phrases written on your body. Then, remove your toy, use it to tease your clit for a few seconds and increase the vibration to a high setting before sliding it back inside you.
- Repeat steps 5 and 6 one more time, writing one last word or phrase and completing your clit play.
- Once finished, lean back and use your toy and your hands to make yourself orgasm using whatever techniques you prefer.