Today’s instructions are appropriate for all and focus on fantasies of spontaneous, clothed sex.
Spontaneity can be extremely hot in the right setting and circumstance, though, those conditions are different for everyone. Before you start, begin imagining your dream spontaneous sex experience, whether that’s in public, in private or a mix of both.
Rules and Information:
- You can orgasm at any time. This is not about orgasm control.
- You will need to wear an appropriate outfit. These instructions will be written to assume you’re wearing a skirt and a top with no tights on. That said, wearing a dress will still work and if you’re inventive, jeans should also be fine. Don’t wear a bra if you want more sensation, more quickly.
- These are not strict instructions. You’re encouraged to play out your fantasy through your masturbating. If your fantasy involves impact play – add this in. If your fantasy involves verbalising submission – add this in. If your fantasy involves a specific type of orgasm or toy – add this in. Your pleasure is paramount.
Instructions:
- Start by putting on your outfit. Take your time and admire yourself in the mirror. Dressing in a way that makes you feel sexy is a self-care exercise – enjoy it.
- When ready, stand up and lean with your back against a wall. Imagine yourself standing in the setting of your fantasy, your partner behind you or with you, teasingly starting to play with you.
Caress your body. Work up from your bare thighs, lifting the hem of your skirt up slightly before it drops again as your fingers move up your thighs and stomach. Spend a few seconds massaging your chest. If you’re not wearing a bra, let your fingertips focus on your nipples for a few seconds before moving on. Tease yourself. Then, move your hands back down your body to your inner thighs again, avoiding anywhere sensitive. Repeat this a few times, letting yourself get lost in your fantasy as you touch your body. - When ready for more, leave your hands touching your inner thighs. Let them gently massage you, taking your time and getting increasingly closer to your clit and your entrance as you go. Stop once you reach the edge of your underwear, then, without touching anywhere too sensitive, tuck your fingertips underneath the underwear teasingly. Let your fingertip stay there without moving and imagine yourself being teased and wound up like this, then, move your fingers out and continue massaging. Repeat this a few times, taking your time.
- Imagine your partner teasing you and whispering in your ear or, for dominants, imagine how they beg to please you. Use one hand to hold up the edge of your skirt so that the front of your underwear is on display. Afterwards, spread your legs apart slightly and trace a line down from your clit to your entrance and back up again. Use a single finger and ensure you’re firm enough to feel it through your underwear. Spend at least a minute exposed and playing with your clit like this.
- Once you begin to feel your wetness through your underwear, stop. With your skirt still held up, use one finger of your other hand to move your underwear aside, exposing your clit and your entrance. Imagine yourself being teased and built up like this. Then, as lightly as possible, brush your labia with your fingertips, avoiding your clit and teasing yourself further. Count to 20 as you do this before moving on.
- What started as spontaneous teasing is clearly becoming spontaneous sex. Lift your top and your bra so that your chest is on display. Before playing with your clit, your partner decides your nipples need to be played with more first.
Use one hand to keep your skirt held up. Use the other to push your underwear aside like before but this time, use two fingers to feel how wet you are. Trace a line from your entrance to your clit and back down again, firmly. Get them wet. Then, use your wetness to tease and play with one of your nipples. Draw circles around it. Flick your fingertip back and forth over it. Pinch and pull it. Use whichever techniques feel best for you.
Do this until you’re desperate to be played with. - Still dressed, lay down on your back or sit down in a way that you can still play with yourself. Pull down your underwear just enough so that you can easily touch yourself. Do not remove them completely, this is a fantasy about spontaneous, clothed sex.
- Whilst teasing your nipples with one hand, use the other to reach down and without touching your clit, spread your labia apart using two fingers. Find the position which leaves your entrance as exposed as possible or feels the best. Hold this position for at least a minute, spreading yourself as your play with your nipples.
- Stop your nipple play and whilst still spreading yourself, wet the fingers of your available hand using your entrance and tease yourself. Slide just the tips of your fingers inside you before pulling them out. Repeat this, sliding more and more inside you each time until you are spreading yourself and your fingers are fully inside you.
- Stop spreading yourself and use that hand to very slowly play with your clit. Use whatever technique and intensity you know feel best. Keep your fingers deep inside you, curling and uncurling them slightly so you can feel the movement inside yourself. Maintain this slow, deliberate play until you are desperate to cum or simply desperate for more pleasure.
- Use your fingers inside you to thrust in time with your clit play, increasing the speed of your clit play to whatever feels best. Then, orgasm.