Today’s instructions are fairly simple. All you will need is a toy and enough space and privacy to spank yourself.
This is suitable for all, as long as you enjoy some light to medium spanking as part of your play or would like to explore incorporating that.
Rules:
- You can orgasm at any time. This is not about orgasm control, it’s about pleasure and arousal.
- You will need a toy. Any toy which can be slid inside you. Love eggs and small vibrators count.
- Find somewhere private. Spanking will be included, so try to find a space where you can make a little noise. Find more spanking and slapping instructions here.
- Optional – Bring a spanking implement. If you prefer your spanking a little harder, consider using a paddle, flat hairbrush, wooden spoon or another appropriate household object to add a little extra sensation to your play.
Instructions:
- Start by stripping down to your underwear, removing your bra and laying on your back. We’re going to warm up and get you in the mood. Let your hands roam across your body – don’t focus on where you’re sensitive, just let them explore your shape. Over your chest, down your stomach, up and down your thighs. Take your time, close your eyes and enjoy the sensation.
- When ready, use the very tip of your finger to slowly trace a line down your body. Start at your neck and gradually move it down the centre of your body, over your underwear, until it reaches your clit. Very slowly begin making small circles over your clit. Ensure you’re being firm enough to feel it through your underwear, count to ten in your head as you do this, then stop.
- Let your finger slide further down to trace the line down from your clit to your entrance, then slide it back up and repeat the previous step. Ten seconds of slow, firm clit stimulation.
- From here, move both of your hands over to your inner thighs and massage them slowly. Don’t be afraid to brush your hands against your clit as you do this. Then, after a few seconds, let your hands roam upwards to your chest, and begin tracing large circles around your nipples. Avoid touching your nipples directly but spiral your fingers closer and closer as they move over your skin.
- Once your fingertips reach your nipples, stop. Do not touch them. Instead, begin to massage your breasts. Use both hands, spreading your fingers to avoid any direct nipples stimulation and massage gently. Close your eyes and enjoy this sensation, returning to these instructions when you’re ready for more.
- When ready, move onto your side. Use one hand to reach behind your back and spank yourself once, firmly. Afterwards, use the pad of a finger on your other hand to lightly press and stimulate one of your nipples. Continue to do this as you spank yourself a second time.
- Every few seconds, spank yourself at a speed and force which feels comfortable for you, continuing your nipple play throughout. Alternate between using the pad of your finger to brush over your nipple and using two fingers to pinch and pull, just hard enough so that it takes a few seconds for your nipple to slip through naturally. Do this for 30 seconds to a minute, then, turn onto your other side and repeat, spanking the opposite cheek and playing with the opposite nipple.
- Once finished, remove your underwear and lay on your back. Use one hand to glide your fingers down your body, up and down your thigh and then over to your entrance. Feel how wet you are by sliding just the tips of a finger or two inside yourself before pulling them out.
- Afterwards, use your index finger and thumb on both hands to lightly pinch the bottom of your labia and, maintaining that gentle pressure, slide them upwards to the top of your labia – use your wetness or external lube to help make this sensation as smooth as possible. Once at the top of your labia, alternate the pressure of your pinching, going harder and softer to find the best feeling. Explore this for as long as you like before moving onto the next instruction.
- Use the fingers of one hand to touch your clit directly. Use whatever clit play technique you enjoy most or, for new techniques you may not have tried, take a look at these. Take your time and spend a minute or two just making yourself feel good like this, then, move onto your front – head down, ass up – and spank yourself once, firmly, using your free hand.
- Continue to spank yourself every few seconds, using your other hand to reach between your legs and play with your clit. Alternate where you are spanking to ensure the sensation is evenly split. You can choose to orgasm as you do this or get out your toy for some penetrative play.
- If you want further penetrative play, take out your toy and lay on your side. Whilst laying on your side, slide your toy inside you and find the vibration, thrusting speed or position you enjoy most. Then, use your free hand to alternate between clit play and nipple play as you use your toy. If you have a toy which stays inside you, use your hands for both clit and nipple play at the same time.
- Orgasm in this position or move into one more comfortable when desperate so that you can push yourself over the edge.